Beyond goals, the purpose we must seek in our lives
Looking back on our lives, undoubtedly, we want to be sure we lived well and continue to do so. It is our connection with others that brings us satisfaction and happiness. The values we live by, and the importance we give them, set the foundation for the relationships we build. Unfortunately, we are often driven by our self-interest and fail to consider the depth of our bond with others.
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In our relationships, if we instinctively react to events as they come our way without considering their longer-term consequences, we are unlikely to end up with a fulfilling life. Instead, we must make our choices in life as dictated by our mission and vision for the future. When we plan for a meaningful life and act on it, we are likely to find purpose in what we do.
Pursuit of wealth and power may not result in a life of contentment. Like a game fisherman who releases what he has caught, the deeper satisfaction comes not from possession, but from giving back what was once gained. Service of others gives our lives their direction and meaning.
There is no dearth of worthwhile and noble goals to pursue, consistent with the purpose of our living. For example, you may take up a cause to address global warming or pollution, even if your contribution is minuscule compared to the challenge. Proper waste disposal, recycling, and cleaning up plastic waste from water bodies can all contribute to safer living conditions. Public service contributes to the common good, and involvement in such activities can be one's purpose in life.
I have chosen my personal purpose in a life of service to those who are suffering and need my help, no matter how small my contribution might be. I have found my happiness in improving the living conditions of the poor and in giving their children opportunities through an excellent education and proper upbringing. The social indignity they suffer has also been a concern of mine. In all these instances, I have found joy in my interactions with those I can reach out to.
One doesn't have to give up one's desire to live a comfortable and exciting life to pursue humanitarian activities. What is important, instead, is the dedication to causes that improve others' lives. In the end, a well-lived life is not measured by what we accumulate and consume, but by the lives we uplift along the way. By leading a benevolent life, happiness can be found at every step.
Compassion without action is not sufficient. Instead, what we do for others is all that matters. A spiritual purpose to our actions strengthens what we do; if caring extends beyond self, meaning follows naturally.